Mental block. I wanted to decongest my phone and trim my photos to at least a thousand or two only but there are too many memories and I thought it was a lot easier for me to write about if it’s just there, waiting for my story.
You see I don’t have too many friends becos they find me intimidating, snob and masungit. I don’t know where people get those impressions when in fact, I’m a lot nicer na these days. Honestly, keeping a few is a choice I made since I don’t know. I have a group of girl friends from my high school class, they are my constant in Cavite since 1986, my Goto Klab group wasn’t borne yet. During college, we went to different universities but we kept in touch thru letters (not email, ok). We don’t really see each other very often, in fact hardly that I even miss Vi and Ar’s wedding. When I landed a telecom job in 1996, one of the girlfriend was an officemate and we even shared apartment. But, while at the telecom industry I met a new set of friends which eventually became my little family back in the city. My trip to Cavite became rare and the more I lost contact with the girls from high school.
But probably when you get older, you realise that urban living is exhausting and you always look forward to visiting the hometown for some R&R. It’s like recharging all the energy lost during the weekday (spent in the city) and of course savoring home-cooked meals by Nanay. And then, you miss old friends and plan day outs with them. And despite not seeing each other for more than a year, it’s always fun and exciting seeing my girlfriends a.k.a. LEARA.
For our yearly get-together, I picked Balay Indang, also called as the The Red Ginger Farm. I haven’t been to the place despite of its proximity because it’s quite exclusive and you can’t just walk-in when you feel like eating an upscale home-cooked meal. The place actually is a garden inspired event place, B&B and resto in one. A cousin held her civil wedding here but I wasn’t invited so I made that visit to kill my curiosity and experience what’s in there. Besides my girlfriends were equally excited to explore the place.
I phoned-in for lunch because they have a sit-down buffet and I thought it was perfect while catching up with the girls. I wowed upon entry to the main house down to the dining hall. It was designed tastefully and homey and comforting. Every corner was Instagram worthy –vintage and very Asian. Apart from it, the place was very peaceful. It’s a perfect weekend get-away destination when you just want to slow down everything.
Of course, I made inquiries ahead of the food. The sit-down buffet was actually a set, menu I cannot all recall by now, except for the shrimp skewers that I cannot forget. Every single shrimp was plump and juicy and made even more tasty with mango sauce. I can actually finish a whole plate by myself so we requested this dish more than the rest of the food.
Next, Tuna Wasabi. I love its clean taste despite its heavy cream like coconut milk. I remember requesting this plate twice or thrice.
We were also served stuffed chicken, beef caldereta, ginataang papaya, a bowl of fresh garden salad, rice and a refreshing blend of dalandan juice. I actually can’t remember the dessert we had back then, maybe it was sweetened banana but I can’t really recall nor had a photo of it.
We savor the meals heartily over a good convo that we didn’t notice the time until we realise that we’re the last diner to leave the hall. We stayed after that filling and delicious lunch, we spent some time exploring the place, we took pictures, hung around a little bit more and enjoyed the beautiful surrounding. I wish I had the chance to stay overnight and wake up to a delicious breakfast. But, I think even if I have the break to do that now, it’s no longer possible becos Balay Indang already closed its doors since February of this year. They were not spared by the ongoing effect of the pandemic and I feel sorry that they have no choice but to permanently stop operations. Sigh! At least, I have these memories to recollect. ♥
Date of visit: 25 June 2017
BALAY INDANG
88 Mahabang Kahoy Cerca, Indang, Cavite
P.S. Had my second jab of Covid-19 vaccine last week, grateful to be fully vaccinated now. I got Sinovac, btw. I could have waited for another brand, a better one they say but I think the best vaccine is the one available and the one in my arm right now.
P.P.S. I’m keeping mum on things, on things happening on my back especially but I’m not sleeping on it. Btw, give credit where credit is due. Don’t just copy from the internet (just to look smarter and wittier). You can’t do it like me. 🙄